After a prostate cancer diagnosis is confirmed, there's a lot to think about
Creating an action plan is important after your loved one's
prostate cancer diagnosis,
but it may be hard to focus or think clearly. Here are some ideas to help you get started:
Take some time to regroup. Your loved one’s prostate cancer is your cancer too, and it’s important to process what you’re feeling. Read about
managing your emotions.
You may also want to read
understanding your man's emotions
and our article about the
signs and symptoms of depression.
Get a notebook. Write everything down, including important dates, test results, and information from consultations with doctors. You will always have these notes to refer back to and you probably will.
Learn more by reading why it’s important to
learn all you can.
Start gathering information from credible sources.
Searching for information
can help you get started, and provides information to help you understand the importance of clinical trials, and tips for reading them. Also visit our section about
prostate cancer treatments.
Get an expanding file, legal sized folder, or a file box. Use it to house everything you gather, including test results, educational information, prescription forms, insurance authorization forms—even doctors’ business cards. Here are some
tips to help keep information organized.
Decide who you want to tell about your loved one’s condition, and who you don’t.
Learn how this may affect you by reading the
pros and cons of telling others.
Consider joining a support group. Read more about the importance of seeking
support for you and him.
If you have young children or elderly parents, decide whether you want to tell them about your loved one’s condition. Before you decide, read
family matters and concerns.
Add your loved one’s name to your church or synagogue prayer list. If you would like to develop faith and don’t know how—or you are questioning your faith—read
finding faith when you just can’t.
We also encourage you to read our "Bill of Rights"
for wives and partners.
Updated 9/09
Always discuss everything you read on this web site with a qualified medical professional.
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